We’ll Never Stop Looking…
We'll Never Stop Looking
Yesterday I met another warrior whose story stopped me in my tracks.
Actually...
It stopped me twice.
The first time was when his partner sat in my office weeks ago and shared what he had been through. Before she even finished, I looked at her and said,
"He needs to come see me."
Yesterday, he did.
He walked into my office carrying a story that I suspect many physicians would consider "finished."
I don't.
Years ago, he was a healthy Wisconsin guy.
He worked hard.
Lifted weights.
Built a successful business.
Loved his family.
Then his liver began to fail.
Not slowly.
Catastrophically.
Within days he was told he had only 2–4 weeks to live.
He was transferred to the University of Wisconsin, placed on the transplant list, and eleven days later received the gift of a new liver from a young Army Ranger whose life had ended far too soon.
It was nothing short of miraculous.
But here's the part that keeps me awake at night.
His liver enzymes had been elevated long before he ever started drinking.
Instead of asking...
"Why?"
The assumption became...
"It must be alcohol."
When he pushed for more answers, he told me he was viewed as a difficult patient.
He even had to involve attorneys to protect his place in the transplant program.
And after surviving the transplant...
The questions never stopped.
In fact, they multiplied.
Why has he had diarrhea his entire life?
Why could he never build muscle despite lifting weights?
Why has anxiety been with him since childhood, arriving like a sudden adrenaline explosion?
Why the insomnia?
Why the fatigue?
Why the stubborn weight around his midsection despite eating clean?
Why the erectile dysfunction that began years before his transplant?
Why the psoriasis?
Why the headaches?
Why did shingles show up as a child...and then again as a young adult?
Why did his liver fail in the first place?
Those questions deserve answers.
Not assumptions.
One of the greatest gifts functional medicine has given me isn't a fancy test.
It's permission to stay curious.
I spent seven years practicing conventional primary care before opening this chapter of my career.
During that time I cared for hundreds of patients in my clinic.
I served as medical director for nursing homes and assisted living facilities.
I ran a hyperbaric and wound care center.
I loved my patients then just as much as I do now.
Back then, I didn't know what I know today about hormones...
Or thyroid...
Or environmental toxins...
Or chronic infections...
Or mitochondria...
Or mold illness...
Or the microbiome.
But one thing has never changed.
If someone came to me looking for answers, I wanted to help them find them.
If a patient was thriving on natural thyroid medication, I didn't insist on changing it simply because it wasn't what everyone else prescribed.
If someone didn't want a statin, I didn't force one on them because a quality metric said I should.
Medicine has never been about checking boxes for me.
It's about serving the person sitting in front of me.
Yesterday was exciting because, for once...
Economics weren't driving the conversation.
This warrior has already demonstrated something I can't prescribe:
Discipline.
He eats well.
He exercises.
He invests in his health.
He has the means to investigate thoroughly.
So we're going to look.
Really look.
We're starting with comprehensive laboratory testing.
Genetics.
Environmental toxin testing.
Advanced Lyme and co-infection testing.
Microbiome analysis.
Hormones.
Immune function.
And later, we'll dive into mitochondrial function and cellular energy if we need to.
Not because I think every test will hold the answer.
But because every result is another piece of the puzzle.
Biology leaves clues.
Our job is to find them.
One of my favorite sayings is this:
Your body isn't trying to betray you.
It's trying to communicate with you.
Symptoms are not random.
They're messages.
Sometimes those messages are loud.
Sometimes they're whispered over decades.
A child with chronic diarrhea.
A teenager with elevated liver enzymes.
An adult with anxiety that never quite made sense.
Those aren't isolated events.
They're chapters of the same story.
The challenge is finding someone willing to read the whole book.
Will every patient have Lyme?
No.
Will every patient have mold?
No.
Will every patient have environmental toxins, mitochondrial dysfunction, hormone imbalances, or microbiome disruption?
Not necessarily.
But someone has to be willing to ask.
Someone has to be willing to say,
"What if there is another explanation?"
Because every once in a while...
There is.
And that single discovery changes everything.
At The Lyday Center, we don't promise miracle cures.
We don't promise every answer.
But I can promise you this:
We will never stop looking.
Because your biology has a story to tell.
Sometimes it's hidden in your genes.
Sometimes it's in your gut.
Sometimes it's in your environment.
Sometimes it's in an infection no one thought to test for.
Sometimes it's in your mitochondria.
Sometimes it's in all of those places at once.
Healing begins when someone is finally willing to ask better questions.
And that's exactly what we're here to do.
Keep fighting, Warrior.
We're just getting started.